Well, if you really want to go full on rose glasses, you could think that at least folks going out and cheating means at least they were invested and wanted to do well. I don't actually think that for the cases I know we're actually talking about, of course, but compared to the deafening silence the horrifying "metagaming, personal dishonesty, abuse of privilege, falsification of results, and 'helicopter crashes' " don't seem so bad as they did.
And then you think back and remember that while there were some absolute gems, folks who I quite miss the company of and would be willing to endure all that crap just to be able to work with, there were some real problem cases who created some real problems, and it's not really that shocking that the folks who run the boards and would be left to clean up any ridiculous messes don't want to endure it again.