I have no particular desire to kill huntsmansl They're polite, don't leave webs on my minis, and I prefer working on a "live and let live" basis, as there's more of them than there is of me. But the wife has the usual reaction. So a little light massage is the answer.
Another pro-tip - if you do vacuum up spider(s), don't then try spraying fly-spray or similar into the vacuum in the hope of killing them. A), spiders laugh at fly-spray, and B), a co-worker some years ago ignited her vacuum cleaner when the (flammable) spray encountered a hot electrical contact ...
Yes, she killed the spider. She also had a lovely mark on her expensive wooden floorboards. Not worth it.