Maybe it's just when you are involved that they choose to save their neck first. xp
Honestly, I've RPGed most of my life(although, never in BT) and that's not the behavior I've seen, even in pick-up group in a local con. There seems to be only one side to a medal for you, the dark one, and that just ain't true. And Destiny system is, like someone mentioned, nothing new. The storytelling system would not have survived if it was like you describe
How to put this in a way that some people will understand?
Ok, the groups that I have been in are mostly old school D&D, Shadowrun 3rd-5th, AToW, A Song of Ice & Fire, Shatterzone, L5R, Etc. type games.
Since I'm up their in age I tend to play with groups in that age range.
I never once said that this game would not have an audience, just the opposite actually.
My points were;
1. Most of the crunch gamer types I play with would never want to play a game like this.
2. Most of the Mechwarrior: Destiny player types would probably not mix well with the AToW types so I don't see any real crossover happening, thus we wind up with two distinct sub-communities and not one role-playing community just like they have over on the shadowrun side (3 now with 6th edition)
3. If you check the Mechwarrior poll you will see that all the player coming to Destiny (at least according to the poll) are not coming from other versions of Mechwarrior.
4. A large number of any new players this game bring in are going to have a different play style the the high crunch Battletech Board game, so I don't see many crossing over.
5. If Mechwarrior: Destiny fails to bring new players to the core of the community the Battletech Board game, then it is just another side product eating into the already limited resources of CGL.
I am not going to play it because its not my type of game, and have already shopped it around to over 15+ RPG gamers in my area that I play or have played with to see if there is any interest, and got no bites, and before you say I let them read the pdf over and did not just explain it to them. Does that mean it will not work for you or you should not like it, No. It means it doesn't work for me or any of the gamers I know.
P.S. Since I see it thrown around a lot and I don't think some of the people using it know what it means.
Crunch, it the shorted version of the term "Crunching Numbers", so any game where you are add numbers is a crunch game, and games where you are adding multiple numbers from multiple charts for multiple actions/events are high crunch games. It has nothing to do with being rule light or not.