The scales can be confusing as times. I made a post on a player aid where I go into detail on just how to convert Scaled SBF and have it play well with ACS Formations and that time scale. You may adopt whatever helps. There is not enough rules for scaled 12 hour turns play to be its own thing, but most of the combat and other stuff is recycled from SBF, to be fair.
The 3.5 days fits into the ISaW timeframe of 8 turns being a whole ISaW turn, it taking place every month. I feel it is a good portion. The SBF 3 minute keeps it its own thing and you can do as much as you like at that scale without stepping on the toes of ACS. The 12 hour portion of Scaled BF can play well with ACS too, you just have to use one scale for movement representation and sink lower into the other scales for deployments, reinforcements, actions and combat. There's flexibility in the rules that are pretty much thrown out like a banquet. You just have to pick and choose. C.O. has many things that are useful in it, most of all the Transit Times table that you can figure the travel time from zenith/nadir points from any custom system or campaign with just the distance of the planet from its star and the size or type of star. It's hard to give someone a full rulebook sometimes. It leads to jumbled confusion of terms and a terrible option paralysis. Or at least that's what happened to me.
SBF is great, but you lose the shining jewel of BF, being the freedom of movement over the maps that is similar to TW core, the use of Command points that are like SPA's on steroids that can be disrupted with espionage points. They all have their caveats and SBF truly is required for forces reaching regimental levels for planetary invasion scenarios-- yet! you can still fit these into a great campaign when you sub-divide the best of both worlds and really experience a planetary invasion as it should be experienced. It, imo, should be a an evening affair and not something that would end so quickly as SBF scale play would make it. What TW takes too long with several Lances, SBF makes a prompt and expedient massacre of.
If you want, some day, to have multiple planetary invasions that run into each other and share history, ISaW is the most practical tool and you can borrow only the top phases really and do the rest in lower scale SBF. But if a single planetary invasion scenario is what you're after, ISaW is overkill and excessive paperwork.